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Oppression
Are women oppressed??? Why this topic all of a sudden ,just that there was a discussion at some place which I came to know about ,so thought I will pen my view on it.
Are women oppressed??? No I don’t think so……atleast not women who know there fundamental rights and who can voice their opinion.
What is oppression???? That is a big question :)
“Oppression is nothing but
The act of subjugating by cruelty
The state of being kept down by unjust use of force or authority
A feeling of being oppressed
Oppression can occur only if the person is not aware of his /her fundamental rights. When you know your rights and speak for it how can it be called oppression.”
We as women should be proud of being what we are and not sympathize with our know form and beg for attention. I would like to ask each and every woman out there to speak out if they are oppressed. am sure majority of the women who will speak out will be the ones who are educated ,working, who are aware of their basic rights. That’s because a woman who is not aware of her basic rights will never be aware of what oppression is all about.
Women’s organizations need to realize what they have formed that forum for.
Let’s talk about marriage for example.
What do we women look forward for in a marriage?? security, protection, somebody who can take care of all your needs and pamper you? She says she wants to be independent, but once she is married the statement is “iam married to him so he better take care of me” Its like you want the throne but you cant rule.
Have clarity on what is that you want .If we go to the core of the problem which is always a hot topic of discussion,we will realize that we women try to sympathize with ourselves and create the impression to the people around us. If you want your man to help in your daily activity tell him that ,he is not going to understand what you want until you tell him. I have come across statements like if I had to take care of my things myself why did I get married? am actually puzzled by such statements, do we get married so that some one will take care of us? If that’s the case don’t say you want to be independent and I want to conquer the world. I don’t intend to say that you should ‘nt expect care form your better half. A relationship will go forward only when you have respect ,love and care for each other.
There was an age when men used to go out an earn and women used to take care of all the household chores. Times have changed, now women also have started contributing to the family financial .Men need to understand that and both need to go hand in hand. Women in turn need’nt except her man to be a slave and do things for her.
On the other hand there are a set male counterparts who wants their ladylove to go for work, but cant tolerate her individuality…she should always be submissive.
Guys and gals get real ,respect each other and go ahead with your lives with love, he or she is not your enemy .We just have one life with limited years so smile and be happy
Are women oppressed??? No I don’t think so……atleast not women who know there fundamental rights and who can voice their opinion.
What is oppression???? That is a big question :)
“Oppression is nothing but
The act of subjugating by cruelty
The state of being kept down by unjust use of force or authority
A feeling of being oppressed
Oppression can occur only if the person is not aware of his /her fundamental rights. When you know your rights and speak for it how can it be called oppression.”
We as women should be proud of being what we are and not sympathize with our know form and beg for attention. I would like to ask each and every woman out there to speak out if they are oppressed. am sure majority of the women who will speak out will be the ones who are educated ,working, who are aware of their basic rights. That’s because a woman who is not aware of her basic rights will never be aware of what oppression is all about.
Women’s organizations need to realize what they have formed that forum for.
Let’s talk about marriage for example.
What do we women look forward for in a marriage?? security, protection, somebody who can take care of all your needs and pamper you? She says she wants to be independent, but once she is married the statement is “iam married to him so he better take care of me” Its like you want the throne but you cant rule.
Have clarity on what is that you want .If we go to the core of the problem which is always a hot topic of discussion,we will realize that we women try to sympathize with ourselves and create the impression to the people around us. If you want your man to help in your daily activity tell him that ,he is not going to understand what you want until you tell him. I have come across statements like if I had to take care of my things myself why did I get married? am actually puzzled by such statements, do we get married so that some one will take care of us? If that’s the case don’t say you want to be independent and I want to conquer the world. I don’t intend to say that you should ‘nt expect care form your better half. A relationship will go forward only when you have respect ,love and care for each other.
There was an age when men used to go out an earn and women used to take care of all the household chores. Times have changed, now women also have started contributing to the family financial .Men need to understand that and both need to go hand in hand. Women in turn need’nt except her man to be a slave and do things for her.
On the other hand there are a set male counterparts who wants their ladylove to go for work, but cant tolerate her individuality…she should always be submissive.
Guys and gals get real ,respect each other and go ahead with your lives with love, he or she is not your enemy .We just have one life with limited years so smile and be happy
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